Am I being shallow?

There is this guy, I'm 14 and he's 16. I, really don't like upperclassmen, they're always calling me boot licker or freshie. He and many other upperclassmen guys flirt with me. I don't trust older guys at all from all the soap opera stories I've heard of older guys always doing the younger girl wrong. I don't like it when older teens touch me or my stuff, not to mention the younger grade hazing. I wish older guys would stop looking at me and talking to me. And the guy I'm talking about now, I already told him I thought he was too old, he still says lets be friends. I told him I only hang out with freshman. But he still constaintly tries to talk to me and hang around me. How can I make it stop! Or am I just being shallow and unfair?

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Not EVERY older guy in highschool is out just for the sex w/ the insecure freshies/sophs. There are some good guys out there. Give him a chance, but be carefull. And no, your not being shallow.

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I think you arent giving him a chance some can be really sweet and nice it really depends on the guy get to know him first

Im 14 and I prefer a older guy
you're being completely unfair. the age difference shouldn't matter to you- you should be excited if upperclassmen take interest in you. face it, everyone hates freshmen, so if someone doesn't, be happy. you'll probably see it that way once you're older
Not being shallow and unfair. Stick to your guns. At that age, guys have one thing on their minds and it sounds like you know your stuff.
hey im in 11th grade and i like to mess around with the freshman girls too simply because MOST of them are are easy unlike the other upperclassman girls. your best bet is to just avoid him and just tell him straight out to leave you alone. if a freshman did that to me i would just forget about her.
no your definetly not being shallow and unfair. its seems your making it pretty clear you are not comfortable around him. you should really make it clear that you dont want to be around him. worst comes to worst you could blame it on your parents and say that ur not allowed to hang out with upperclassmen and older kids. best of luck..sounds like you know whats best for you!!

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Don't be so biased. You should give the guy a chance. Not in a relationship or anything, but a chance of being a friend. Age isn't anything but a number, remember that. Are you really going to believe the television? Television is full of propaganda and mess, just to get grasp of your attention. You guys are only 2 years apart, that isn't anything at all. Now if he was 20 or something, then you might have a tad bit of a problem ;D

I think you should give the guy a chance. He's not harming you [or so I think]. Just don't let your guard down.

And if you REALLLYY dont want to talk to him anymore. Make up a lie or something. Tell him you have STD's or some-sort =D

j/k. dont do that, because the news will spread, and youd look like a bad person.
U got it all wrong. The older the better. Older guys are Mature and if you guys say i unno date then he is stedy in it. Un like younger or guys ur age they just act stupid. The older the better they know what they want in a relationship. Why not give him a chance. He just might surprise you. Who knows. And i think you are. If he is just useing you then theres a reason not to talk to him.