Is there something wrong with being friends with someone who is dating someone else?

Lets start with that, then tell my why everyone wants a soap opera to happen in their lifetime. Then tell me why anybody would try thier hardest to destroy such a unique friendship? Maybe I should tell you the story. I have (or had more or less) a close friend of the opposite sex. We were nothing more than friends. However, because she was dating someone else, her friendship with me was looked upon as wrong, immoral, cheating..? I did nothing with her that I wouldn't do with any one of my other friends. Was I in the wrong, or did people have a right to try to sabatoge the friendship?

Is there something wrong with being friends with someone who is dating someone else?listen to opera

First off there is nothing wrong with just being friends with someone of the opposite sex.

It doesn't really matter what other people think..there will always be that one person who tries to hurt others relationships. As long as you and your friend are comfortable with your realtionship thats all that should matter.

As for others who feel its wrong.... they are not good friends if they were they would know there is nothing wrong with your relationship. If its her Boyfriend then he is very insecure with himself and his realtionship with his girlfriend. Unless she is the one leading him to think that your relationship with her maybe be more to make him jealous.

There are some who just can't accept other relationships liek yours its sad but true.

I personally have had similar problems in the past. But if you and her are truely close and best friends everything will work out. If not then the friendship is not worth your time.

Hope this helps.

Is there something wrong with being friends with someone who is dating someone else?concert venue opera theater

people are so old fashioned!! thats all it is!!
no that is not wrong at all... it is always good to have a best friend of the opposite sex that is just a friend because it is someone who will always look out for you and you can always talk to and hang out with, and not worry about what you look like or say because they dont judge you. who ever told you that having a best friend with a boy friend was immoral is a d-bag!
Friendship is friendship with out it where would we be.It's not wrong to have friends of the opposite sex.Some of her other so called friends are'nt friends.As long as her boyfriend dont see anything wrong dont let it bug you.
The closer she gets to her boyfriend, the more she should go to him for her emotional needs. To do otherwise is called "emotional adultery."

Don't get me wrong though!! It's not wrong for you to remain friends, not in the slightest. He would be wrong to try to keep you from being friends with your long established friends.

Just remember, when the boyfriend becomes fiance then husband, HE is number one in her life.
It is healthy to have friendships with the opposite sex, and neither of you should have a problem with maintaining your friendship. No one has the right to sabatoge your friendship!
A lot of people dont understand that opposite sexes can be just friends.

Also maybe the people around you and her were jealous of your relationship.

Jealousy is a dangerous and nasty emotion that some people cannot control. It also says a lot about the people around you!!!!
I don't think you were wrong, but your lady friend might have been wrong for keeping contact with you while she was in a relationship. If her b/f felt threatened or uncomfortable that she was still keeping in contact with you, then she should have backed off for a little while. It's all out of respect for her b/f. Surely you know that the two of you have never been intimate or anything but of course her b/f doesn't know or understand that which is why she should not have kept contact. It's okay to still remain friends, but you it doesn't mean you two still have to chat and hang out like you did before. It's all out of respect for her relationship. Typically most people believe it's wrong to remain in contact with friends of the opposite sex. To a certain extent, I kinda agree.
Most of my friends are men. Most of them are married. Most of the wives understand that is all we are, are friends. Only a few get mad at there husbands. There are a lot of men and women out there that think that a man and woman can't be friends unless something sexual is going on. My ex was one of those people. I couldn't talk to a man without being accused of something. My husband now is totally different. He has friends that are women and it doesn't bother me and my male friends are now his friends.
there's nothing wrong with that your jus being friends n not having sex with each other
you were not wrong they were and so was she for letting it happen. there is nothing wrong with having a friend of the opposite sex even if they are in a relationship. it is good to have friends... of any sex.....
Who cares what the other person thinks just as long as you dont try to **** her j/p....but yeah i like your avitar or whatever you call them
be careful