Does any one have this same dilemma?What do I do?

I have a son with this guy and we were never romanticaly involved our baby was an oops!We were angry at each other in the beginning considering the situation.Then we became friends.Last summer he wanted to try a relationship and I had no feelings for him except for friends.Yes every now and then we had sex, but it was nothing to me.(I know that sounds bad but we have all had sex with someone purely for the feeling.)As time went on we started spending more time with each other and started having sex more frequently, yet still remaining friends.I mean we could talk about the opposite sex and not get jealous, we were really friends with benefits.Then it was like over night and I fell in love.I completely want to be with him, but he is used to the way it has been and is satisfied with our friends with benefits.I am not.I want us to be a family.This is like soap opera sh#t!I can not believe my feeling have done a 360 degree shift.He has not done anything different.I am clueless.Is it Karma?

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Its not karma! its completely natural to develop strong feelings for someone who has been sharing your bed, your thoughts and feelings and you have a son together! Its like you were already an item but didnt admit it to yourself.

You have to tell him that you can't live with things the way they are, you want him in your life but you need him to yours and all yours, oh and your sons of course.

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I totally agree with what Curious said. Right on target with that. I can't say it any better so I am not going to try.